Talk to Your Family

Even if you have registered your consent to donate your organs and tissue, doctors will ask your family before recovering your organs and tissue.

You may find the topic of organ and tissue donation an uncomfortable one to think about, let alone make a firm decision about. But keep in mind that when someone suddenly passes away, the family is often faced with this difficult decision at the worst of times. Things can be made a little easier if the family is aware of the wishes of the organ and tissue donor. Knowing that their loved one's final wishes were carried out, and helped to save lives in the process, can be a great source of solace.

Here are some tips on discussing this important decision with your family:

• Prepare for your conversation. Make your personal decision about donation. Think about possible questions, and seek answers.
• Talk about it where it feels natural. Where does your family feel most comfortable discussing sensitive issues? In the family room, the car, on a walk?
• Have the discussion with everyone who may need to know. Who would be called to your bedside if you were about to die? These are the people who will be asked for permission to proceed with donation. Talk to them about your decision and listen openly to their concerns. Explain why their support is important.
• Take the time to find out what each person in your family would want you to say in the event that you were asked for permission to donate their organs or tissues.

By talking it over with your family you will make it easier for your loved ones to consent to organ and tissue donation on your behalf. As many donor families will attest, the donation of a loved one's organs helped them find comfort in a tragic situation.